Info untuk hari ini....

Hari ini, saya nak kongsi bersama dengan rakan-rakan... yang mana saya sebagai seorang ibu buat pertama kali yang sangat teruja dengan kehadiran seorang insan bernama anak... memang boleh dikatakan setiap hari saya akan teliti perkembangan dan kalau boleh semua saya nak rekodkan sama ada melalui gambar dan video jika berkesempatan... disini saya sertakan jadual perkembangan kanak-kanak untuk semua... :)

Child's Age	Mastered Skills (most kids can do)	Emerging Skills (half of kids can do)	Advanced Skills (a few kids can do)
1 month	• Lifts head when lying on tummy • Responds to sound • Stares at faces	• Follows objects briefly with eyes • Vocalizes: oohs and aahs • Can see black-and-white patterns	• Smiles, laughs • Holds head at 45-degree angle
2 months	• Vocalizes: gurgles and coos • Follows objects across field of vision • Notices his hands • Holds head up for short periods	• Smiles, laughs • Holds head at 45-degree angle • Makes smoother movements	• Holds head steady • Can bear weight on legs • Lifts head and shoulders when lying on tummy (mini-pushup)
3 months	• Recognizes your face and scent • Holds head steady • Visually tracks moving objects	• Squeals, gurgles, coos • Blows bubbles • Recognizes your voice • Does mini-pushup	• Rolls over, from tummy to back • Turns toward loud sounds • Can bring hands together, bats at toys
4 months	• Smiles, laughs • Can bear weight on legs • Coos when you talk to him	• Can grasp a toy • Rolls over, from tummy to back	• Imitates sounds: "baba," "dada" • Cuts first tooth • May be ready for solid foods
5 months	• Distinguishes between bold colors • Plays with his hands and feet	• Recognizes own name • Turns toward new sounds • Rolls over in both directions	• Sits momentarily without support • Mouths objects • Separation anxiety may begin
6 months	• Turns toward sounds and voices • Imitates sounds • Rolls over in both directions	• Is ready for solid foods • Sits without support • Mouths objects • Passes objects from hand to hand	• Lunges forward or starts crawling • Jabbers or combines syllables • Drags objects toward himself
7 months	• Sits without support • Drags objects toward herself	• Lunges forward or starts crawling • Jabbers or combines syllables • Starts to experience stranger anxiety	• Waves goodbye • Stands while holding onto something • Bangs objects together • Begins to understand object permanence
8 months	• Says "mama" and "dada" to both parents (isn't specific) • Passes objects from hand to hand	• Stands while holding onto something • Crawls • Points at objects • Searches for hidden objects	• Pulls self to standing, cruises • Picks things up with thumb-finger pincer grasp • Indicates wants with gestures
9 months	• Stands while holding onto something • Jabbers or combines syllables • Understands object permanence	• Cruises while holding onto furniture • Drinks from a sippy cup • Eats with fingers • Bangs objects together	• Plays patty-cake and peek-a-boo • Says "mama" and "dada" to the correct parent
10 months	• Waves goodbye • Picks things up with pincer grasp • Crawls well, with belly off the ground	• Says "mama" and "dada" to the correct parent • Indicates wants with gestures	• Stands alone for a couple of seconds • Puts objects into a container
11 months	• Says "mama" and "dada" to the correct parent • Plays patty-cake and peek-a-boo • Stands alone for a couple of seconds • Cruises	• Understands "no" and simple instructions • Puts objects into a container	• Says one word besides "mama" and "dada" • Stoops from standing position
12 months	• Imitates others' activities • Indicates wants with gestures	• Takes a few steps • Says one word besides "mama" and "dada"	• Walks alone • Scribbles with a crayon • Says two words besides "mama" and "dada"
13 months	• Uses two words skillfully (e.g., "hi" and "bye") • Bends over and picks up an object	• Enjoys gazing at his reflection • Holds out arm or leg to help you dress him	• Combines words and gestures to make needs known • Rolls a ball back and forth
14 months	• Eats with fingers • Empties containers of contents • Imitates others	• Toddles well • Initiates games • Points to one body part when asked • Responds to instructions (e.g., "give me a kiss")	• Uses a spoon or fork • Matches lids with appropriate containers • Pushes and pulls toys while walking
15 months	• Plays with ball • Uses three words regularly • Walks backward	• Scribbles with a crayon • Runs • Adopts "no" as his favorite word	• "Helps" around the house • Puts his fingers to his mouth and says "shhh"
16 months	• Turns the pages of a book • Has temper tantrums when frustrated • Becomes attached to a soft toy or other object	• Discovers the joy of climbing • Stacks three blocks • Uses spoon or fork • Learns the correct way to use common objects (e.g., the telephone)	• Takes off one piece of clothing by himself • Gets finicky about food • Switches from two naps to one
17 months	• Uses six words regularly • Enjoys pretend games • Likes riding toys	• Feeds doll • Speaks more clearly • Throws a ball underhand	• Dances to music • Sorts toys by color, shape, or size • Kicks ball forward
18 months	• Will "read" board books on his own • Scribbles well	• Strings two words together in phrases • Brushes teeth with help • Stacks four blocks	• Throws a ball overhand • Takes toys apart and puts them back together • Shows signs of toilet training readiness
19 months	• Uses a spoon and fork • Runs • Throws a ball underhand • Enjoys helping around the house	• Understands as many as 200 words • Recognizes when something is wrong (e.g., calling a dog a cat)	• Washes and dries own hands with help • Points to picture or object when you call it by name • May know when she needs to pee
20 months	• Feeds doll • Takes off own clothes • Dumps an object in imitation, such as throwing garbage away	• Learns words at a rate of ten or more a day • Can walk up stairs (but probably not down)	• May start exploring genitals • Draws a straight line • Names several body parts
21 months	• Can walk up stairs • Able to set simple goals (e.g., deciding to put a toy in a certain place)	• Throws a ball overhand • Kicks ball forward • Stacks six blocks	• Names simple picture in a book • Can walk down stairs
22 months	• Kicks ball forward • Follows two-step requests (e.g., "Get your doll and bring it here")	• Does simple puzzles • Draws a straight line • Names several body parts	• Puts on loose-fitting clothes • Might be ready for a big bed • Understands opposites (e.g., tall vs. short)
23 months	• Names simple picture in a book • Uses 50 to 70 words	• Opens doors • Sings simple tunes • Takes more of an interest in playing with other kids	• Talks about self (likes, dislikes) • Asks "why?"
24 months	• Names at least six body parts • Half of speech is understandable • Makes two- to three-word sentences	• Talks about self • Arranges things in categories • Can walk down stairs	• Begins to understand abstract concepts (e.g., sooner and later) • Becomes attuned to gender differences • Learns to jump
25 and 26 months	• Stacks six blocks • Walks with smooth heel-to-toe motion	• Uses pronouns (e.g., I, me, you) • Washes and dries own hands	• Speaks clearly most of the time • Draws a vertical line
27 and 28 months	• Jumps with both feet • Opens doors	• Understands descriptions (e.g., big, soft) • Draws a vertical line	• Starts to recognize ABCs • Balances on one foot
29 and 30 months	• Brushes teeth with help • Washes and dries own hands • Draws a vertical line	• Draws a circle • Balances on one foot	• Puts on a T-shirt • Names one color • Names one friend
31 and 32 months	• Recites own name • Draws a circle	• Puts on a T-shirt • Balances on each foot for a second • Recognizes ABCs • Brushes teeth by herself	• Uses two adjectives • Draws a cross • Points to objects described by use
33 and 34 months	• Names one color • Names one friend • Carries on a simple conversation	• Alternates feet going up and down stairs • Uses prepositions (e.g., on, in, over) • Speaks clearly most of the time (75 percent can be understood) • Stacks eight blocks	• Is toilet trained during the day • Wiggles thumb • Expresses a wide range of emotions • Draws a stick figure
35 and 36 months	• Describes how two objects are used • Uses three to four words in a sentence • Names two actions (e.g., skipping, jumping)	• Hops and skips • Follows a two- or three-part command • Separates fairly easily from parents • Rides a tricycle	• Balances on each foot for three seconds • Gets dressed without help

Roseola fever...

Balqis pernah kene this fever... penuh satu badan bintik-bintik merah dan high fever... since Balqis pernah warded coz of fever... kita orang memang panik la... demam panas sangat... and lembik memanjang... and this fever berpanjangan dan tak surut walaupun dah bagi ubat demam. Balqis start having fever since 19th October 2009, only on 23rd October 2009 the red spot appear. we start searching the internet about fever symptoms, we fear of denggi and H1N1 yang famous pada waktu itu... menakutkan seh.... at that time fara jumpa one blog nie cerita about her daughter meninggal coz of denggi.. symthoms dia lebih kurang.. dan lebih menakutkan dan menyedihkan adalah anak dia meniggal dunia after a few day having fever.... kita orang lagi la panik... balqis dah few times ke klinik amik ubat demam... tapi kita orang dah mula risau.. kita orang terus bawak ke hospital terdekat untuk dapatkan ubat... first time doctor prescribe with antibiotics. then secondly, demam still tak surut and red spot start to appear... we went to the hospital again, doctor prescribe another antibiotics and have blood tested for confirmation the fever is not denggi....

here are some pictures for your reference... if anybody out there have the same symptoms...

The red spot on Balqis face & body

Jari berbalut after ujian darah

We put on "Bedak sejuk" to cool her off and to heal of the red spot

Alhamdullillah after few days the red spot heal off and no scars

Here I attached some information from Babycentre.com that we have referred before and it do help us a lot and do comfort us a lil bit dari panik tak tentu hala... hehehehe.

Find your toddler's symptoms in the left-hand column and then click on the link at right to learn more about the condition. (Note: This chart is a guide and does not replace the advice of your doctor.)

Symptoms:	What it could be:
Flushed face, irritability, lack of appetite, damp hair, heat rash. Toddler may be sitting in the sunshine, a closed car, or a warm room, or be dressed too warmly.	Overheating
Severe cold symptoms, runny nose, cough, sore throat, fatigue, muscle aches, diarrhea, vomiting, poor appetite. Sudden onset of fever, typically 101 degrees Fahrenheit or higher. Most common between November and April.	Influenza (Flu)
Ear pain, fever higher than 100 degrees F. Possibly stomach upset, poor appetite, vomiting, or diarrhea. In rare cases, yellow or whitish fluid drains from ear. Most common after a cold.	Ear Infection
Small blister-like sores in the mouth and on the palms of the hands or the soles of the feet (and possibly the buttocks). Mild fever, sore throat, loss of appetite. Most common in preschoolers but can occur at any age.	Hand, Foot, and Mouth Disease
Small red blisters inside the mouth or on the lips. Sore throat, fever, may refuse to eat or drink, bad breath, may be dehydrated.	Gingivostomatitis
Fever between 101 and 105 degrees F for two to five days. May have runny nose before or with the fever. Afterward, a raised pink rash on torso, spreading to neck, face, and arms. Most often affects children between 6 months and 3 years of age.	Roseola
Deep cough that sounds like a bark; noisy, labored breathing; high-pitched sound on inhalation; cold symptoms. Frequently accompanied by a low fever, sometimes as high as 104 degrees F. Most common under 5 years of age.	Croup
Irritability; possibly some indication that urination is painful; cloudy, bloody, or foul-smelling urine. Sometimes vomiting or diarrhea. Usually fever; sometimes with no other symptoms.	Urinary Tract Infection
A cold that seems to be getting worse; persistent cough; fast, labored breathing; fever; chills.	Pneumonia
Fever may be the first symptom, followed by nausea, cramps, chills, vomiting, or diarrhea.	Gastroenteritis (Stomach Flu)
High fever, vomiting, diarrhea, irritability. Sometimes the only symptom is a fever.	Blood Infection Call the doctor right away
Fever, headache, vomiting, irritability, poor appetite. May have stiff neck.	Meningitis Call the doctor right away
Runny nose with clear mucus that may thicken and turn gray, yellow, or green over the next week or so; perhaps a cough or a low fever. Will play and eat fairly normally when fever comes down (if not, could be something more serious than a cold).	Common Cold
Cold symptoms, such as a runny nose, a minor cough, and fever, followed by a more pronounced cough a couple of days later. May also have wheezing, rapid breathing, or breathing with increased effort. (May or may not cause a fever.)	Respiratory Syncytial Virus (RSV), or Bronchiolitis
Throat pain; possibly fever; chills; swollen glands in the neck. Tonsils may be swollen, bright red, and flecked with white. May have cold symptoms as well.	Sore Throat

http://www.babycenter.com/toddler-symptom-guide

Pelajaran hari ini...

sintom-sintom yang perlu diketahui jika anak anda muntah... info dibawah diambil dari www.babycenter.com

Find your child's symptoms in the left column and then click on the link in the right column to learn more about the illness. (Note: This chart is meant to serve as a guide and not to replace the advice of your doctor.)

Symptoms:	What it could be:
Vomiting; diarrhea; poor appetite; possibly fever.	Stomach bug or food poisoning
Queasiness or stomach upset after or while riding in a car, boat, plane, or amusement ride; vomiting.	Motion sickness
Severe cold symptoms; usually fever; diarrhea; vomiting.	Flu
Congestion; runny nose; sneezing; sore throat; cough; achiness; possibly fever; sometimes stomach ache or vomiting caused by swallowing mucus or by excessive coughing.	Cold
Ear pain; fever over 100; possibly stomach upset, vomiting, and /or diarrhea; possibly fluid draining from ear.	Ear infection
Tenderness in pelvic area; possibly mild fever, nausea, or vomiting; need to urinate frequently; painful urination.	Urinary tract infection
May have dry, itchy rash on face, kneecaps, elbows; allergic symptoms whenever child eats the offending food, such as: itching and swelling of face, lips, and mouth; hives; watery eyes and runny nose; possibly vomiting, diarrhea, or difficulty breathing.	Food allergy Call 911 if your child is having trouble breathing
Vomiting after taking certain medications or combinations of medications.	Medication side effects
Vomiting; you think your child may have swallowed some kind of non-food item like a drug, chemical, or plant.	Poisoning Call your Poison Control Center right away
Vomiting after a blow to the head; possibly also dizziness, confusion, sleepiness, seizure, unconsciousness.	Concussion
Seemingly fine one minute and then writhing in pain the next; vomiting; lethargic; passing blood from the rectum. Most common between ages 6 months and 3 years.	Intussusception Call the doctor right away
Poor appetite; low-grade fever; possible vomiting; stomach pain that worsens over a few hours and seems to be in lower right quadrant or middle of abdomen.	Appendicitis Call the doctor right away
Lump in the genital area or near the navel that suddenly becomes larger, harder, or darker, and cannot be easily "pushed back in"; possible vomiting; writhing in pain.	Incarcerated hernia Call the doctor right away
Fever; vomiting; irritability; poor appetite.	Meningitis Call the doctor right away
Fever; fatigue; poor appetite; vomiting; abdominal discomfort; dark-colored urine; jaundice (yellowing of skin and eyes). Uncommon.	Hepatitis
Abrupt vomiting five to seven days after a viral illness like flu or chicken pox; associated with taking aspirin; drowsiness or hyperactivity; possibly diarrhea; seizure. Very rare.	Reye's syndrome Call the doctor right away

diharap info ini dapat sedikit-sebanyak membantu. :) For more info you can get it from http://www.babycenter.com/toddler-symptom-guide

Balqis horoscopes....

Adventurer at heart

Your Sagittarius son or daughter is a born adventurer. For Sagittarius children, life is all about experience. They want to go out into the world and embrace everything it has to offer.

If your little one gets into all sorts of trouble before he can even walk, don't be surprised! Sagittarius children like to explore beyond the limits put in place by their parents.

Above all else, your Sagittarius child wants to learn and understand. You can help him with this by making his life as fun, varied and challenging as possible. Family holidays will go down well, as will long adventures in the great outdoors and games of hide-and-seek in the back garden.

Your Sagittarius child is naturally sporty and will need to work off his extra energy by doing things that are playful and physical. Let him join the local football team, or take him on long walks in the country.

His mind needs to be kept active too, so provide your Sagittarius child with lots of books to read and take him to museums, zoos and art galleries as often as possible. He has a universal outlook, so give him plenty of freedom and challenging conversation.

And finally, Sagittarius children tend to be bright, lively, optimistic and outgoing, which means they have a wide circle of friends. So don't expect your child's birthday parties to be small affairs. There are just too many people who love being around him!

Let your child roam (Balqis & mama)

Your Sagittarius child is energetic and curious by nature and wants nothing more than to get out and roam the world. From an early age, he loves being outside regardless of the temperature or weather conditions. He adores travel, even if it's just a trip to the supermarket in a nearby town, but a camping trip or a visit to another country would be even better!

You appreciate your little one's honesty, his sense of morality and his happy heart, but while you're certainly up for life's many pleasures, you're just not quite as adventurous as him. Stable and grounded, you prefer the comforts of home to breaking away from what's familiar to stretch limits and investigate ideas. However, your Sagittarius child needs the freedom to explore the boundaries of his existence.

A bold child (Balqis & Ayah)

You can easily relate to your Taurus child's attraction to enjoyment and self-indulgence. Beauty, pleasure and good company mean a lot to both of you, and you're each friendly and sociable with others. One difference between you, however, is your little one's natural confidence and basic comfort in the world. In an effort to get along with other people, you may sugarcoat your opinions and agree when you shouldn't, but your little Taurus, though a sweet-natured child, is more upfront with his feelings - and stubborn enough not to compromise when he doesn't want to.

His grounded, sensual nature goes well with your affectionate personality, as you're able to give him all the cuddles and closeness he needs. Your child's grace and practicality will inspire you, and you'll always enjoy watching him meet the world on his own terms.

picture of da bDay girl.....

lambat.. sorry la yer....